Ok, I’m about to do a 180 from something I may or may not have said years ago…
The topic: penis size.
So, it’s a myth that big dicks are more satisfying to a broad (I’m only speaking vaginally; don’t ever talk to me about a southern orifice ).
This myth is SEVERALLY UNTRUE! (At least to me).
Let’s say a dude with a 10 inch dick wanted to have sex with me… I would immediately get very scared and pass. I wouldn’t ever fucking do it, unless I wanted my sex to be painful and uncomfortable. I am a very petite woman and I’m just not trying to do that.
The optimal penis I would love to screw would be between 5.5-7 inches when ready to go.
But length isn’t even that important.. the main thing that I (and most other people that like cocks in their vaginas) care about is the girth.
Girth is the most important thing because it’s the thing that takes part in ones satisfaction, not the length… (though hitting certain spots is important)
I can say unequivocally, I have never had an orgasm with someone who had a dick bigger than 7 inches.
I lost my virginity at age 18. I am 30 years old now. So in 12 years, a large penis has not given me an orgasm… I don’t want to say a blanket statement that it’s just not possible for them to give me an orgasm, but that’s what I believe.
There was a person that had the right length, but the girth was not there at all… I’m talking the skinniest penis I’ve ever seen in life. It was kinda comical, but I tried really hard not to laugh at the guy’s junk.
Surprisingly, I did get an orgasm… but nothing before that felt very good. He was just able to hit a spot, the rest consisted of me maneuvering myself in such a way that it happened.
This penis was so skinny that whenever this person wore a condom, it was a little loose. (I was on BC during the entirety of our relationship, so I didn’t care too much), but one time he put a magnum on (since those were the only condoms I had) and that shit was obviously way too big. It slipped right off. It didn’t have a chance to fit! Lmao.
Big dicks are great and all, sure. I dated an asshole who had a rather large one and besides his fetish for black women (and having them as his “slaves”), he would make me tell people that he wanted to fuck the fact that his dick was so big. He would continuously try and force me into having a threesome because “I couldn’t handle all the dick and he wanted to have sex 8 times a day for hours at a time and I couldn’t possibly be able to satisfy him completely.”
Its really not something to behold.
Sex is sex, but it’s so much better when the dick is attached to someone you’re attracted to more than just sexually. I am a woman, so yeah, I’m going to connect different feelings and attractions together.
when men are self-conscious about penis size, I can kinda understand it. As a woman, you’re seeing my tit size and the size of my ass through my clothes. What you see is what you get. For a man, it’s a crap shoot. They wear loose clothing so not only would you not know what their body actually looks like, you have no idea what their dick size would be unless you touch it (and if you want to get arrested for sexual assault, that would be a good idea).
It’s crazy that people really put an emphasis on big dicks… if you’re dick is 6.5 inches, gets somewhat fat when hard, has some really smart guy attached to it, that dick is ready!
I seem to get really bored really easily. It’s bad. I’m trying not to be that way, but excitement goes two ways I suppose. I can’t be the only one that’s all about everything. So that has something to do with it too I guess.
Obviously, everything I’m speaking of is more emotional than physical. I don’t think the physicality matters as much.