For ones first date, asking a girl to dinner, well I should say, asking me to dinner, shows the depths of your lameness.
So let’s say that you met someone whom you are attracted to, you wanna get to know this girl a little better so you decide to take her out.
First off, don’t be lame and be like omg let’s get dinner… that’s not a suggestion that will show her who you are. Before asking someone out, you must get to know their interests and if you both have similar interests.
You can’t just ask someone to do something lame and think that they won’t think you yourself are lame…
So? If you’re not sure what common interests you both have, don’t ask them out yet.
If you’re not lame, it’s hard to look that way. However, if you are lame, it’s simple to see right through it. Don’t try and do something you yourself have no confidence in, that’s a waste of time.
I feel like I’m in a dating limbo… the good ones that are single are like in their early 20’s, the last one, I tried, but he was a fucking virgin and that was not my responsibility… I would like a 35 year old, or someone older than me… preferably with experience.
I know I have a youthful appearance, so that makes shit weird. I’m also in college so it’s like I’m one of them. (News flash!: I’m fucking not!)
Not that I have any time to focus all my efforts into a person PERIOD. But like, hanging out, no fucking strings. Is that hard to fucking compute? We’re all adults, right?